Stepping Back Into Community
Community asks us to stretch ourselves.
It asks us to step beyond what is familiar, begin conversations with people whose experiences and values may differ from our own, and remain open long enough to learn something about one another.
I sometimes wonder whether the absence of community contributes to the anxiety and social pressure so many people feel today. When we become disconnected, it is easier for uncertainty to turn into fear. But when we gather, when we listen to people’s stories and recognize the humanity we share the unfamiliar can become less frightening.
Community reminds us that we do not have to face everything alone. It makes us stronger and helps us find the people and places where we feel accepted.
This past week, I hosted a neighbourhood barbecue. Call me crazy, but I truly believe in community and what it does for the spirit.
By the time I arrived home that evening, I was exhausted. Although the planning had come together quite naturally, hosting the event required a great deal of energy. Yet while I was there, surrounded by neighbours talking, laughing, sharing food and getting to know one another, I felt an incredible sense of joy.
Most people probably would not recognize me as an introvert, but I truly am, perhaps an introvert in an extrovert’s body. Being social tires me out, but meaningful connection fills me up.
When I meet people, hear their stories and discover the things we share, I feel more hopeful. I believe a little more deeply in the future of my neighbourhood, the future of our planet and the future of what it means to be human.
There is something powerful about stepping out from behind our screens and being present with one another. We may not always agree, but listening allows us to understand. Familiarity can soften fear, and connection can remind us that we belong.
So, my invitation is simple: find your way back to community, or discover a new community in whatever way feels meaningful to you.
Attend a neighbourhood gathering. Speak to someone you do not yet know. Volunteer. Join a group. Share a meal. Sit with someone and listen to their story.
Stretch yourself just a little.
You may arrive home exhausted, but you may also return home feeling more hopeful, more connected.
